It’s as if the Chinese are so foreign it doesn't count.In the UK, Sherry Fang, a 26-year-old British Chinese student, tells me she's had strangers say to her “you look just like his ex, she was also Chinese”, and argues it would be wholly inappropriate if she were black or Indian.Just at the end of March, it threw a four-hour-long party at a pub in Central, in which 200 men and women met for the first time., and it is often said there are always more women than men in speed-dating parties.But it's subtle, and of course, few would admit to surfing online dating sites for Chinese women, yet when the only girls they date are Chinese, then the probabilities are in their favour.Having said that, I'm surprised at what British men, both young and old, generally get away with when talking about East Asian women (Chinese, Japanese, Korean etc.) as well as South East Asian women (Vietnam, Thailand etc.) I've heard my Caucasian friends recommend to their male, single mates that they should date “nice Chinese girls”, with the added bonus that Chinese women are far more sexually open-minded than Caucasian girls.
“She met him at a pub, and he asked her if she could introduce him to some decent girls, because he didn’t want to look for a girlfriend in some Wan Chai pub,” she notes.Our dating consultants will coordinate schedules and even book the restaurant for you.All you have to do is to turn up and enjoy your date!The truth is, Christina says, the ratio of men and women attending speed-dating parties is often equal, and sometimes there are more men than women.Christina says it is important for women to start the conversation with guys they are interested in. Based on her observations at Single Club, many female members are simply too shy in front of guys.“Everyone is stranger to each other at the beginning, but once people start chatting with each other and exchanging phone numbers, they are no longer strangers. “But the truth about one-night stands is that they almost always never develop into lasting relationships.” Christina advises women against looking for serious relationships in pubs or discos because most of the guys in those places are just trying to get laid.In fact, the most recent figures from 2.4 million users of Facebook dating apps showed a clear skew in preference for women of East Asian descent by men of all racial groups, except, ironically, Asian men.